I think it’s a matter of the current priorities in our life and what goals we are trying to ascertain. Does this sound about right?
For me, currently, I’m focusing on me. I made a New Year’s Resolution for it to be the “year of me” and I’m working on that. I mean this in a good way and not a selfish way. I mean it with regard to mind, body, soul. Also, it means minimize and/or eliminate the drama and stress I encounter. I haven’t quite figured out the drama issue as of yet. But, I do curtail it as much as possible and at times it is rather difficult. The flipside of this equation is working out and eating right – a work-in-progress. I reached a plateau with my work-out routine and my goal for the next 6-months is to step it up to the next level with physical results. One of my goal’s is rock solid abs, a 6-pack if you will, and smaller hips and thighs. Pretty good goals don’t you think? And my motivation is the end result – the change in my physique.